Sadness

As a matter of our culture in general, but especially this time of year I feel something needs to be said firmly and clearly.

Sadness is not a character flaw.
Grief is not a character flaw.
Loneliness is not a character flaw.
Living outside traditions is not a character flaw.
Having painful stories and life histories during this time is not a character flaw.

Having a full spectrum of emotions and claiming the right to your own experience, even when it seems to be one that leaves you apart and in the wilderness is not a flaw. It is beautiful. I am out here with you.